Things good Pastors say

Things good Pastors say

I love this list. It comes from Pastor Jared Wilson.

Things good pastors say

1. You’re right.

Good pastors know they’re not always (not usually?) the smartest, most “spiritual” person in the room. They are zealous to give credit and acknowledge achievement and intelligence, not just because it’s the right thing to do, but because it encourages and empowers others.

2. You’re wrong.

Bad pastors chicken out when it comes to calling people on sin or biblical ignorance. Good pastors brave potential conflict and hurt feelings and say “You’re wrong” in gentle but firm ways when necessary.

3. Jesus loves you.

Why did we stop saying this? I think because it became cliche. I’d love to see a recovery of the art of “Jesus loves you.” Strategically said at times of others’ admissions of failure, sin, or trouble, “Jesus loves you” is a fantastic way to speak the gospel into people’s lives.

4. I love you.

I think one reason we stopped saying “Jesus loves you” to people is because we don’t really love them ourselves. Might as well save the hypocrisy, eh? But good pastors lay their lives down for the sheep. Telling people you love them is a reminder to them and to you that sacrificial love is your calling.

5. Me too.

Next to “Grace is true” (see below), these might be the most important words in pastoral counseling. Bad pastors trade regularly in “Not me.” In the pulpit and in the office, bad pastors set themselves apart from their congregations with tales of adventure, spirituality, and personal holiness. In the pulpit and in the office, good pastors talk of sin and trials and utter ineptitude and say, “Me too.” I have seen entire countenances change when I’ve said some variation of “Me too.”

6. Grace is true.

You probably won’t use the words, of course. But good pastors take the opportunity to glorify God by “talking up” his amazing grace every chance they get. Bad pastors may say grace is true but the context of their teaching and the expectations in their leadership say “Your works must be this high to ride this ride.” I know some of my friends hate it when “gospel” is used as a verb, but I just have to say it: Good pastors gospel their people. 🙂